tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3873176583084736685.post5934799695246755103..comments2021-03-01T16:45:18.442-07:00Comments on Between The Minds ~ The Beehive: Well Guess What Mom, It's Too Damn LateBeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02389501651154868657noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3873176583084736685.post-14069945091929569522010-12-30T14:22:43.166-07:002010-12-30T14:22:43.166-07:00It saddens me that you had to go through that. It ...It saddens me that you had to go through that. It is so, so wrong! <br /><br />I can understand not wanting to tell her. I wonder...is it possible that she was unable to hear you when you were young because that would mean that she would have to deal with your uncle being in the house? I am not justifying...just wondering if it would have been too overwhelming and that could be why she was unable to see. <br /><br />Now that it is years later and your uncle is no longer in the home, do you think it might be possible that she would be able to hear you now? <br /><br />Anyway...just some thoughts. Not suggesting that you tell her. I support whatever decision you make.OneSurvivorhttp://asurvivorsthoughtsonlife.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3873176583084736685.post-51513233930547274692010-12-26T17:08:33.788-07:002010-12-26T17:08:33.788-07:00Sitting with you.....
LothlorienSitting with you.....<br />LothlorienLothlorienhttp://lothlorien.typepad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3873176583084736685.post-41626406442881285452010-12-23T23:59:43.455-07:002010-12-23T23:59:43.455-07:00I'm so sorry she didn't listen, Bee. Maybe...I'm so sorry she didn't listen, Bee. Maybe it would help to tell her now, like Ivory said? I don't know, but I'm so sorry she didn't listen then and isn't listening now. Hugs!<br />MichelleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3873176583084736685.post-42456873725167266542010-12-23T07:37:35.275-07:002010-12-23T07:37:35.275-07:00It's not too late. Tell her. It won't stop...It's not too late. Tell her. It won't stop the memory of abuse, but it may give her valuable insight. I think she has a right to have a chance to be angry with him and try to right it emotionally with you. I have to be honest and say that telling my family was not a good experience for me - as far as my family goes, but it was liberating for me to tell. To finally tell.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com